Demographic Winter

Here in Spangle we are seeing the first hints of spring. I have pussy willow trees in my backyard and just this last week saw the first hints of fluffy buds. Several cut stems are now blooming in my living room where I can really enjoy their beauty. We have had two days this week of such pleasant, sunny weather that I have been able to take Grant outside without having to bundle us up first.
It is always wonderful to see the signs of the changing seasons, and when winter's grip loosens and spring begins to spread its new life and growth all over the world, new joy fills my heart.

Yet, in countries all over the world, a different kind of winter is just settling in. In some countries, like ours, it has not yet arrived, but is coming as surely as the spring is coming to the northern hemisphere. Chances are you haven't heard of it, or even suspected its existence. It is a demographic winter, and all our lives will be different because of it.

I won't go into too much detail here because I don't want to steal the thunder of the people who spent so much time and money on the documentary, but I want to get you curious so you will start thinking and choose to go to YouTube and see for yourself.

Here's a little information to get you started: 
Concisely, demography is the study of population growth and decline. Demographers look at long term trends and run all their little statistical algorithms and plot what our population will look like in the future. An important demographical concept is replacement fertility rate, the rate at which we must reproduce ourselves in order to maintain our current population. For every two people, 2.1 more people must be born in order to keep the population stable. The 0.1 is to take into account the possibility that a person will die before reproducing himself.
Nearly all Western countries currently have sub-replacement fertility. You might think this is a good thing. After all, isn't the world over-populated? I used to think so, too. This first clip is a very succinct and somewhat humorous introduction to the overpopulation myth. Next is the trailer to the documentary that helps to explain it all. Think it over!





Watch the whole documentary here.

Happy New Year!

Many apologies for the long delay between posts. Grant has been keeping me busy, and there has been so much to do! I hope to take the time sometime soon to share all the things that have kept us from posting for a while, but that time is not now. 

Grant is almost six months old. He now has three teeth and is learning to eat a few solids. He weighs 20 lbs. and is rapidly outgrowing his clothing, though we have enough clothes to last him quite a while. (Why don't they size clothes by weight instead of age with babies? He has never made it to the top of the age range in a clothes size.) Though he's not crawling quite yet, Grant is getting up on his hands and knees and rocking or pushing up to his tiptoes. Once he figures out that his hands need to move with his feet he'll be off! It's very exciting to watch. Just last week he started saying "Ma-ma-ma-ma", and today we heard "Da-da" for the first time. Now all his grandparents and aunties are vying for position as the next word. :) 

We are so blessed to have such a precious child, it is more than worth all the struggles we have gone through to get him to this point. We're eager to start over again! 

Here is a series of pictures that almost brings you up-to-date.

  

I hope you had a merry Christmas and a very happy new year. May the Lord bless you in this year to come.

Pictures

Grant is now one month old. He's gaining weight slowly but steadily (after an initial loss of about 10 oz.) and is more adorable with every day that goes by.

Oh, you want to see?

Too bad, not here. However, Steven has now started his picasa web album of Grant. There aren't super-recent pictures up, but we will add more periodically--we're in the process of moving right now and haven't had much time. Just keep watching for updates.
Back to unpacking...

Presenting...Grant Joseph Williams

I finally have a few minutes to post our news. Our precious son (yes, just one--we were very surprised!) was born early last week.
He was born at home into his father's hands on 18 July 2011 at 3:47 a.m. after 6 hours of hard labor (the easy parts having taken up the better portion of the previous 6 weeks :). Steven was indispensable to me during the whole process--I would not have survived without him! Labor was much harder than I expected, due mostly to the baby's size (see below), but with God's help and Steven's support and encouragement, I made it through and was rewarded with an incredibly beautiful son.

 

Vital Statistics
Weight: 10 lb 4.5 oz
Length: 20 3/4 inches
Head circumference: 14.5 inches
Eye color at birth: blue
Hair color at birth: dark
Eye color now: purple-brown and changing
Hair color now: medium blonde and lightening

We are gradually adjusting to the new way of life little Grant brings. Sleep is getting better, and I am learning how to get things done quickly while the baby is sleeping and/or not crying. He has only four modes, it seems: sleeping, crying, awake but not crying (rare), or eating. We try to take full advantage of the sleeping and awake but not crying states! We will be posting more pictures on our picasa web album and will let you know and post a link when that has been done.

Thank you for all your prayers, encouragement, and support. We are greatly blessed by this little life God has entrusted us, and each day is better than the last.

In Your loving arms we lay
This wordless one so new,
The incarnation of our love
We dedicate to You.

Hopeless, yet so full of love
We make our solemn vow, 
Not knowing when the time will come,
Not even knowing how.
And though it seems we try to make
A promise that is true
We really only claim for him
The Promise that is You.

In Your loving arms we lay
This wordless one so new,
The incarnation of our love
We dedicate to You.

The holy sleep which falls so deep,
A blessing from above,
Will now embrace our little one
In simple, trusting love.
We offer You this child
Who's only ours for just a while;
How could we keep him back from You
When You gave Your only child?

(Michael Card, "Wordless Ones")

Or not...

So, nothing happened on Tuesday night. Like before, labor just petered out when we tried to get some sleep, and no real developments happened in the next couple of days.

Today is seeming more promising. These babies have seemed to prefer Sabbaths, so it is fitting, and not surprising, that I've been having "labor signals" yesterday and today. I might not post again for a while if the babies come, but I'll try to get at least a little blurb in if I'm right and they make their appearance today.
We covet your prayers!

Tonight's the night!

So, babies went along with statistics and did not arrive on their "due date". We thought it might be kinda cool for them to be born on 7/4, but that was not to be, either. This morning I woke up early (after getting to bed late) and couldn't sleep, so I got up and ate an early breakfast and did some reading, then went back to bed to try to get a little more rest. I did finally get back to sleep and woke up around 0945 just feeling lousy. I still can't quite describe how it felt--I was hot and sweaty and crampy down in my abdomen, but not really contracting. This went on for a couple of hours.

My parents came by at around 1130 and picked up a few things before they headed back to Spangle, then Steven and I took a walk. I felt much better after the walk, as long as I didn't sit for too long.
Things picked up in the afternoon, and now we're just waiting for the babies! I will try to post the whole story in the next few days.

Keep us in your prayers!

40 weeks

Well, here we are. Today is my official "due date", so as of today I have carried these babies to term. As much as I've been impatient to go into labor the last few weeks, I must say that I feel a bit of pride in having carried twins to term--it's a rare thing these days. My grandmother carried her twins to term (my dad is a twin), so it runs in the family, I guess.

Will I go into labor today? Statistics say that only 5% of babies are born on their due dates (and how much of that is due to routine induction is hard to say), so my odds aren't too good. I can tell you one thing for sure, though: we won't be going too far from home in the next few days!